People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a God send and they are. They are therefore the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Some times they die. Some times they walk away. Some times they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life,whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
zindagi me koi kabhi aye na rabba....
aye jo koi to phir jaye na rabba....
dene ho gar muje bad me ansuu
to pehle koi hasaye na rabba..
5 comments:
Ek choti se ghazal irshad hai jo apka article dekhnay kay baad mujhay yaad ayee. Problem yeh hai kay ajkal ke dunya may waqt ke bohat kami hogayee hai. Jisko dekho bay inteha masroof hai.
mai to yeh kahta hoon kay jo mujhay tohra sa bhe waqt daita hai, wohi mera sacha dost hai:
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WAQT NAHI
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Har khushi Hai Logon Ke Daman Mein,
Par Ek Hansi Ke Liye Waqt Nahi.
Din Raat Daudti Duniya Mein,
Zindagi Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.
Maa Ki Loree Ka Ehsaas To Hai,
Par Maa Ko Maa Kehne Ka Waqt Nahi.
Saare Rishton Ko To Hum Maar Chuke,
Ab Unhe Dafnane Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.
Saare Naam Mobile Mein Hain,
Par Dosti Ke Liye Waqt Nahi.
Gairon Ki Kya Baat Karen,
Jab Apno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.
Aankhon Me Hai Neend Badee,
Par Sone Ka Waqt Nahi.
Dil Hai Ghamon Se Bhara Hua,
Par Rone Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.
Paison ki Daud Me Aise Daude,
Ki Thakne ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.
Paraye Ehsason Ki Kya Kadr Karein,
Jab Apane Sapno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.
Tu Hi Bata E Zindagi,
Iss Zindagi Ka Kya Hoga,
Ki Har Pal Marne Walon Ko,
Jeene Ke Liye Bhi Waqt Nahi.......
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this is the read of teh century..!
Kisey key aankh may kajal nahi ho jab
Aur kisey kay hont bhe rangon se khali hoon
Who so kar abhi uthey ho
Aur na ho palkon par maskara
Aur uskay baal bhe bhikray huvay hoon
Guzishta shab kay
Who silwat zada kapray he pahnay ho
Aur usko aisey halat may
Jo dekho tum to yeh soncho
Kay dunya may koi bhe
Us say ziyada khoobsurat nahi hosakta
Samajh laina tumhe es say mohabat hai
@anonymous
sahi kaha apne, waqt nahi har pyari cheez ke liye. Apne thoda waqt deya is blog par uske liye thahe dil se shukria. Ghazal acchi hai. :-)
@Ani
Thanks!
Hope u got ur internet connection, c u here soon again. :-)
khloos ho to dua may, to asar bhe ata hai
shajar hara ho to usme samar bhe ata hai
merey sama'at o binai cheenay walay
mai sun bhe sakta hoon, mujhko nazar bhe ata hai
tumhay chiragh bujhanay ka zoam hai lekin
haman tulo e sahar ka hunar bhe ata hai
kalisa o haram o dair, mohtaram lekin
inhi ke zad may kahin mera bhe makan ata hai
ajeeb tanz se sub shahar mujhse poochta hai
batao koi kare hunar bhe nazar ata hai
falak nashen sahi mera khuda, magar mohsin
kabhi kabhi woh zameen par bhe utar ata hai
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